An-Nisa · Madani · ayah 66 of 176

An-Nisa 4:66

وَلَوْ أَنَّا كَتَبْنَا عَلَيْهِمْ أَنِ ٱقْتُلُوٓا۟ أَنفُسَكُمْ أَوِ ٱخْرُجُوا۟ مِن دِيَـٰرِكُم مَّا فَعَلُوهُ إِلَّا قَلِيلٌ مِّنْهُمْ ۖ وَلَوْ أَنَّهُمْ فَعَلُوا۟ مَا يُوعَظُونَ بِهِۦ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَّهُمْ وَأَشَدَّ تَثْبِيتًا

“And if We had decreed upon them, "Kill yourselves" or "Leave your homes," they would not have done it, except for a few of them. But if they had done what they were instructed, it would have been better for them and a firmer position [for them in faith].”

Saheeh International

Essence

Allah knows how few would pass a crushing test; He asked something light instead, and doing it steadies a person more than imagined heroics.

A reflection

He knows the self you would have been

This ayah describes something that never happened. Had We prescribed for them, kill yourselves or leave your homes, they would not have done it, except a few.

A classical commentary stops on that. This, it says, is from His knowledge of what was not, and of how it would have been, had it been. Allah knows not only what you did. He knows what you would have done, in every trial you were never given.

That is where the ego shrinks. Most of us keep a private hero inside. If I had lived in that time, I would have stood firm. If it had been me, I would have given everything.

A man watches a wartime film about families who hid strangers in their attics at the risk of their lives. 'I'd have done that,' he says. His wife asks, gently, whether he would lend the new neighbour his car for a hospital run. He laughs. Then he goes quiet.

The imagined self is the ego's favourite costume. Before Allah, it does not exist. He knows the real answer to every 'what if'. That is humbling, and also freeing. Nobody is asking you to perform the hero you imagine. You are asked to do the small thing in front of you.

Why, then, tell people they would have failed? Not to belittle them, and not because He needs anything from them. He is free of all need (35:15). A commentary reads it as mercy: He did not lay such burdens on them, and was content with easy ones. A pharmacist who knows a patient cannot manage a complicated regime prescribes one tablet a day. That is care, not contempt.

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