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Al-Isra 17:32

وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓ ۖ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ فَـٰحِشَةً وَسَآءَ سَبِيلًا

“And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse.[741] Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.”

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Essence

Allah forbids not only the act but the walk towards it, because its ugliness has outgrown every bound and its road ends badly.

A reflection

The night of drawing near

Picture a caravan crossing the desert towards a well. For days the herders let the camels graze as they walk. Then, when only one evening's march remains, everything changes. The camels stop grazing and press on through the dark, to reach the water at dawn. The Arabs called that last stretch laylat al-qarab, the night of drawing near.

That is the verb this ayah uses. Not 'do not commit', but lā taqrabū: do not draw near. One concise commentary notes that this is more forceful than forbidding the act alone. Another explains it as keeping away from its causes and everything that invites it. A third adds that the ban covers its first steps, near or far.

The camel picture explains why. Nearness changes behaviour. A long way off, you can stroll and look around. Close to the water, thirst takes over and you hurry. Desire works the same way. The nearer a person comes, the faster the remaining distance seems to close.

A seventeen-year-old is in a lively group chat with friends from college. One boy starts replying to her privately, just jokes at first. Weeks later they switch to disappearing messages, which feels grown-up and harmless. One Friday he writes: my parents are away, come round and watch a film. Nothing has happened yet. But she is no longer grazing. She is on the night march.

The ayah draws its line far back from that Friday. It does so not out of suspicion, but out of realism about how people work. It is easy to keep a distance at the start. It is very hard to stop at the end.

So the question this ayah asks is rarely 'would you do it?' Most people would say no, and mean it. The question is: where have you started walking faster? Which conversation, which screen, which late evening is the beginning of your night of drawing near?

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