Al-Baqarah · Madani · ayah 156 of 286

Al-Baqarah 2:156

ٱلَّذِينَ إِذَآ أَصَـٰبَتْهُم مُّصِيبَةٌ قَالُوٓا۟ إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّآ إِلَيْهِ رَٰجِعُونَ

“Who, when disaster strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to Allāh, and indeed to Him we will return."”

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Essence

Grief's first sentence, given by Allah: everything I call mine is His, and I am on my way back to Him.

A reflection

The word 'mine'

Most of us know innā li-llāhi wa innā ilayhi rājiʿūn as the line that goes under a death notice. A name appears in the family group, and thirty people type the same words. It has become the Muslim way of saying 'rest in peace', a sound we make when someone dies.

The ayah is wider than that, and stranger. It does not say 'when someone dies'. It says idhā aṣābathum muṣība: when any calamity strikes them. The commentaries define a muṣība as anything that hurts the believer, small or great. Sahih Muslim records that every fatigue, illness and sorrow, even a worry that troubles him, wipes away something of his sins. The commentaries also preserve a report that the Prophet's ﷺ lamp once went out and he said these words. Asked if that was a calamity, he said: everything that hurts the believer is. That report comes without a connected chain, so hold it lightly. The meaning is firm.

Then listen to what the sentence claims. Innā li-llāh: we belong to Allah. Not 'we are sad', not 'why us'. It is a sentence about ownership.

That is where it goes to work on the ego. We live by the word 'mine'. My son. My health. My house, my career, my plans. Grief is the moment that word is exposed. A classical writer lays it out. You did not bring what you lost into being from nothing. You could not shield it from harm once it existed. You could not keep it in existence for one more day. What you called yours was His, in your hands for a while.

Pride lives in that small word. This ayah takes it gently out of our mouths, at the very moment we would cling to it hardest.

Is that a tyrant's logic, the owner taking what he likes? The answer lies in Who the Owner is. The same writer says He did not send the calamity to destroy you or to punish you. He sent it to try your patience, to hear you call on Him, and to see you at His door. And the sentence does not end at 'we belong'. It ends: to Him we return. Not to a landlord. Home.

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