Al-Hujurat · Madani · ayah 5 of 18

Al-Hujurat 49:5

وَلَوْ أَنَّهُمْ صَبَرُوا۟ حَتَّىٰ تَخْرُجَ إِلَيْهِمْ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَّهُمْ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ

“And if they had been patient until you [could] come out to them, it would have been better for them. But Allāh is Forgiving and Merciful.”

Saheeh International

Essence

Waiting at the right door until it opens is itself a form of honour, and it gets you more than shouting ever could.

A reflection

How forbearing his master is

A young man storms out of a family bakery after a row with the owner, slamming the door. Months later, short of money and of pride, he comes back to ask for work. He has rehearsed an apology. The owner cuts him off. Your apron is still on the hook, he says.

The ayah ends with two of Allah's names: Ghafūr, Forgiving, and Raḥīm, Merciful. One commentator draws out two things they do here.

The first is surprising. When a servant does something outrageous and the king does not punish him, people say: how forbearing his master is. They are not only praising the master. They are measuring the offence. Mentioning forgiveness right after the rebuke shows how serious the delegation's behaviour really was. The forgiveness is large because the wrong was large.

The second is tender. It is like a runaway servant who finally comes back to his master's door. He is told: you did well to return, and your master is merciful. The good act of returning is allowed to cover much that came before.

The same commentator explains the order of the names. Forgiving comes first: He covers the sins. Then Merciful: He looks at the person, sees him bare and in need, and clothes him in honour.

This is where the ego has to sit down. The delegation came believing that their praise and blame could raise or ruin anyone. Their real position was simpler. They were people who had behaved badly, and whose only hope was a forgiveness they had done nothing to earn.

Another commentator notes what Allah chose not to do. Such disrespect might have called for punishment. Instead He limited Himself to counsel and rebuke, and left the door wide open. That is not weakness. It is the generosity of One who needs nothing from anyone.

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